This year started with me seeing a local Japanese woman. I saw her three times but decided not to see her again. In March I went to stay in London and saw eight different women in Soho. I intend to do the same in 2026.
I looked in Vivastreet and saw a Chinese place. I went there every fortnight from May to October. There is a different woman there each fortnight. I have seen 14 different women, although I saw one of them three times. So I've been there 16 times. Lily was so lovely I wanted to see her again.
Apart from Lily, the two best ones were the last two I saw there. There was a younger one who was wearing a maid's uniform. She wanted me to pay extra so that the oral sex would be without a condom. I declined because oral sex isn't especially enjoyable to me. Later I asked her what else she does for extra money. What about kissing? She said yes and we had a proper snog.
The last one was an older woman. She offered sex without a condom for another £60. I declined, even when a bit later she said I could do it for £40. There has only been one other who offered that, and she was an older woman too. One of them wanted me to wear two condoms, one on top of the other.
They all have smartphones with an app that translates between Chinese and English. Most of them have little English. I paid £60 to each of them for a half an hour. When I want to go there I don't have to speak to anyone on the phone, I text and she texts me back with the details including the codes for the security gates to get into the block of flats.
As far as I can tell there is no one else in the flat when I go there.
I have been reading Invisible: Britain's migrant sex workers by Hsiao-Hung Pai. She writes about Chinese women and also Eastern European women in Soho. I am reading the chapters about Chinese women and I shall read the chapters about the Polish woman later.
Hsiao-Hung Pai worked as a maid in a Chinese brothel. The information she provides is anecdotal, unlike the information in Professor Ko-lin Chin's book that I reviewed. Ko-lin Chin said that 15% of the Chinese women he interviewed had problems although were not necessarily exploited.
It is always possible to find a woman from that 15%, although I wouldn't say these women were especially exploited, compared to cleaning or working in a clothing factory. On page 18 of Invisible the author said that the sex worker had worked 18 hours. Then the reader has to wait till page 79 before being told that they are only actually having sex for a fraction of that time.
Four, five or six men each day seems to be the usual amount. Most of the sessions will be half hour sessions. One woman said she makes £1,200 per week and had sent home around £70,000. Robbers not punters are the biggest risk to their safety. They had a strategy though, the sex worker would not open the door unless she had received a phone call from her boss and she would shut the door quickly if more than one man was there.
Recently I have gone to a Thai massage establishment. The woman I saw was called Maya and she doesn't do anything sexual. She told me though that Kim would come into the room and give me hand relief if I wanted. I didn't.
The next time I went Maya wasn't there, only Kim. So I had a nice time with Kim, massage then hand relief. She also does body-to-body. I said that next time we might go further, perhaps I could look at her pussy. She pulled down her pants and showed me her hairless pussy. I will probably go back to see her again. I gave her £35 for the half-hour massage, another £30 for the hand relief and an extra £10 for showing me her pussy, even though she hadn't asked to be paid for dropping her pants.
